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LIMITLESS is an ongoing discovery about a ways of life and how to rise above your challenges. I started this walk in 2009, I stopped, then I came back to my first love. Let's keep doing this people, that way, we would never give up!

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Sunday, February 7, 2010

WHY

Hello, I have this burning need to spill these questions, sometimes, life is just so complex yet simple attimes.These are my whys”:
-Why did my parents ever give me this strange name? That way, when I introduce myself, I have to endure the questions people ask?
Why oh why do I have these hips and backside? Forget my boobs, the bigger, the better.
Why can’t men, guys just be friends with chics? They must want something more? Really annoying!
Why is it that I only want to write when I’m sad? Write poems when I’m absolutely in despair and so hurt I can feel my guts spilling out?
Why do ladies believe the lies men tell?
Why must the introduction of sex in to a relationship turn the situation messy?
Why must guys say “Baby, I’m coming” during a sex interlude?
Why are ladies each other’s enemy?
Why is it so easy for a guy not to commit to a relationship yet so easy, typical for chics to be slaves to their relationships?
Why must ladies cross their legs or be expected to have a certain way of sitting properly? Does it matter?
Why must ladies be expected to perform house chores? Can’t the guy do the house chores as well? No inhibitions?
Why is it that when a lady is friendly and nice to a guy, He always thinks she is so into him?
Why can’t my mum stop poking her nose into my business?
Why is it that wristwatches don’t last on my wrist? They always stop functioning?
Why do guys stop loving-Just like that?
Why are some chics prettier and sexier than some others?
Why do I hate men?
Why is it that I can’t stop thinking of ways to punish those who have wronged me?
Why don’t I smile often nor am I happy but always despondent?
Why does life have to suck this much?
Why is it that the men I get to love don’t love me back?
This is out of a burning need to understand certain puzzles that I, on my own, have not been able to decipher. I love life to be simple enough to be understood even by me.. When this doesn’t go as it should, I try to solve it. Thus far, I haven’t been able to solve these ‘Ys’ that I have encountered in my life.


10 comments:

Anonymous said...

certainly can identify. Women don't have to do all the chores, i refuse to and partner and I share them, afterall i dnt wait for him to wash the car or bring in all the money.
I have laernt to love simply for the sake of it. I enjoy it when it lasts and when its gone, I remember the good times..
Nice blog

muyiwa said...

why must guys say baby i am coming during sex interlude, lmao,you forgot to include why must a lady cheat on his man becuase he is a bit faraway from her ,

Omotee! said...

hmmmmmmmmm, wish i could answer.

Mista Jaycee said...

Dearheart,
I can try to answer a few of your questions.
You have the hips and backside cause the creator is an artist. Some would kill for what you have enjoy it. Gravity will have it's way with all of us. Besides the creator knew how much you would complain if you didn't have hips and backside.
Why do guys announce when they are coming? It's because the Sistas place alot of emphasis on mutual satisfaction not to mention we are talking about the creative mix to the Creative Mixer! (IE the Baby Maker)

Last on some of your other questions well we should be more attentive to one another. Sistas can be just as insensitive and inattentive as Brothas.

And specifically why do Women have to close their legs when sitting for the same reason Men have to wear pants and underwear, Protection and cause it's too powerful a weapon to be unsheathed! (Wink)
Jaycee

2cute4u said...

@ Anonymous.. woulda loved to know you.. those are the little goodies that ladies seem to enjoy but of what use is it when other aspects suck uh?If you can really walk away without blinking when your love thingy is over.. then, congrats!Are you sure it was really love?really?well, I guess ever has his/her own way.. still I hope you had fun? and that you'd always come back/ thanks.
@ muyiwa.. hmm.. How come I knew you'd have a come-back uh?well, it takes two to make it work you know?its not the distance but the actions you put when you are away..think about it.loving me already aren't you? lol.. thanks for coming..
@omotee.. my darling, how are you? work and the slimming business?thanks for taking the time to stop by.
@my favorite mista jaycee,hmm all that.. well i guess i could never be satisfied.. your whys are duly noted lol...cheers.. thanks for being able to drop the pen and stopping by.. cheers!

2cute4u said...

@ Anonymous.. woulda loved to know you.. those are the little goodies that ladies seem to enjoy but of what use is it when other aspects suck uh?If you can really walk away without blinking when your love thingy is over.. then, congrats!Are you sure it was really love?really?well, I guess ever has his/her own way.. still I hope you had fun? and that you'd always come back/ thanks.
@ muyiwa.. hmm.. How come I knew you'd have a come-back uh?well, it takes two to make it work you know?its not the distance but the actions you put when you are away..think about it.loving me already aren't you? lol.. thanks for coming..
@omotee.. my darling, how are you? work and the slimming business?thanks for taking the time to stop by.
@my favorite mista jaycee,hmm all that.. well i guess i could never be satisfied.. your whys are duly noted lol...cheers.. thanks for being able to drop the pen and stopping by.. cheers!

kay9 said...

Read something somewhere recently: "I've learnt the secret of understanding the world: just stick around until you get used it!"

Chill out babe; life is too short for spoilt tomatoes :)

2cute4u said...

@Kay9.. gee for thanks.. ok will take you advice, thanks for stopping by..

2cute4u said...

@Kay9.. gee for thanks.. ok will take you advice, thanks for stopping by..

P'sy-A-wana said...

a wise man once said, f*** it to be concise...there are more questions than answers in this world..why the hips for childbirth, why childbirth for continuation of the species and it goes on and on so don't trouble your head....P.S thanks for stopping by